High Hopes Are you a parent? What is positive thinking affects your child

Quick ... Which song won an Oscar for Best Song of the Year in 1959?

If you know some little things, congratulations! It 'was the song high hopes for the film, illusions (not the famous film, I admit). The song was recorded in 1961 by Frank Sinatra as poplar.

In the turmoil of today, the lyrics seem banal

The next time they meet, his chin on the ground

There is much to learn to look at - all year round.

Exactly whatdoes ant bit 'old

You think you are going to plant rubber trees?

Who knows an ant can not move a rubber plantation,

But he is sure that he had high hopes ...

Ant, and probably can not be a rubber plant itself, but when you keep promising enough, there is more chance of success because it has an attitude of hope to find a place inspiration. And there is hope, strength. Without it, desperate to curb and stop effective solutions forStatus quo.

Great expectations can seem like a myth, if you see something like that today all the fear of suffering, defragmentation, and even evil, terror and paranoia. However, brain research, data collection, hoping that people solve problems effectively. Moreover, it is clear that what we focus on grows. And vice versa, do not give our attention, is shrinking. If we focus our hope, our hope is growing. If you are overwhelmed by despair ... So, of course,wash our hope.

We see our son or force, we are overwhelmed by their lack of motivation? If we are not careful, their strengths, to grow and not the "problem" certainly increases the motivation. If you remember, our daughter or reflection should always give their moodiness to comment? This is the way to grow up in a bad mood. The human brain is a strange device that looks random. No, works for a specific set of principles. And one of thethe most important principles is that the center of our attention, in large part, creates the reality in which we live. This is not New Age mumbo jumbo, but the new managers are enabled on this fascinating aspect of the operating system of our brain. It was a lot of academic research on the topic. In fact, the positive analysis, a cornerstone of the PCI-technical model of a process methodology, the results of this search. Recognize their own research studiedThe strategy works because it uses powerful tendencies of the human brain in his head.

The fact is that it should increase if we are attentive to the vicissitudes of fortune. Little hope there are more things to say and the conversation is no more hope. Explore more of hope that we have before us, we are to each other and our world faster and more often. Before you know are the negative aspects of lack of care and reduces the positive effects have increased almost as if by magic!Of course, we have become more optimistic ... the spiral continues ... more good things happen.

Our world challenges us well in advance of our attention on the hope of bringing life and the best. And I think that deeply affects our parents. How can we continue to focus on hope, on the positive and what to work on our daily lives with our children?
Here are five considerations for parents of hope in difficult times.

In his research, CR Snyder (PsychologyHope, The Free Press, 1994), as follows:

1. Parents want to know how to get what they want. They are committed and enjoy, resourceful and flexible, especially in difficult times. The determination can have a clear vision of what we find to our children and our families. The determination means that the mental energy and physical endurance to sweat a challenge long enough for an efficient solution. If we leave, we can be surebe defeated. Self-care goes a long way to help you plan to stay in difficult times. Watch for signs of when you feel like giving up. Instead, what you think about yourself and your children, focus on its internal strengths and improve the type of resistance.

2. Hopeful parents listen to. Listening and attention to our children the strength increases our flexibility to change course if our parents is not always the strategyThe results we seek. Often our children will one day know that we follow our instinct and answer the question of our integrity: What does more to this life? As we see our children from this perspective, suddenly you can see a lot of things we do for them, a sense of accomplishment, who appreciate his talent at the moment and I hope your future with hope.

3. Children look to parents hoping to succeed.It seems that parents are promising for the sense of achievement of autonomy. This definition of the Chamber of success is not the definition that concerns the world is big, big cars, money, etc. However, the success seems to be measured "high self-esteem and a positive self-image the same." This concerns many parents of children with positive self-esteem levels of children more hope, happy and confident with self-esteem!

4. Hoping Parenting comfort. IfOr, to really worry about the heat, the comfort of parents expect the child and act on opportunities for support of high stress situations. As is typical of parents who are emotionally more optimistic. Do not let the negative energy capacity to be present and the influence of their children. Can you negativity away so as not to bring children as possible to maintain. "There is no time for me," Parents, are charged with fear can not receptive to the emotional needs of children.Hoping that parents transmit confidence and transparency in communication between parents and children to keep the doors open, even during puberty!

5. The parents hope to support the autonomy of children and the competition. This does not mean that something is happening. This does not mean is that by focusing on what the child is healthy every day, accumulating over time, the father of a high self-esteem of the child. The belief that the child has talents and abilities. As one of the children inSnyder Research. "The biggest thing I remember my parents doing things for me to teach, but I always knew they were there for me when I'm in trouble ... If he had done something wrong and I have spoken."

It seems that the basic high hopes for parenthood is to give us our best to help themselves, even in difficult times and take full advantage of our children.

Then, anything is possible ... For us, our children ... ourWorld.

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